There’s some things that are strange, surprising, and mysterious about the following:
3When the wine was gone, Jesus’ mother said to him, “They have no more wine.”
4“Dear woman, why do you involve me?” Jesus replied, “My time has not yet come.”
5His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”
6Nearby stood six stone water jars, the kind used by the Jews for ceremonial washing, each holding from twenty to thirty gallons.[a]
7Jesus said to the servants, “Fill the jars with water”; so they filled them to the brim.
8Then he told them, “Now draw some out and take it to the master of the banquet.”
The most noticeable mystery is the transition between verses 4, 5, and 6. It’s clear that there must be something going on between the lines of the text. Because if you just read the words themselves, they don’t really connect.
In verse 4, Jesus seems to indicate that he won’t be doing anything to solve the problem. In verse 5, Mary seems to ignore the content of Jesus words and seems to believe that he’s going to do things despite his words. In verse 6, Jesus proves Mary right: despite his apparent words to the contrary, Jesus provides more wine.
The more I think about this, the less it lines up with everything we know about Jesus based on the rest of scripture. Suggesting that Jesus was somehow guilted into this by his mom, for example, is questonable. It implies an error in judgement on Jesus’ part. Similarly, the idea that he was being coy just doesn’t work either. It’s hard to imagine Jesus words being said in a wink-wink nudge-nudge kind of way. Though he often uses sarcasm, irony, and crazy reversal of expectations elsewhere, this example isn’t like anything else in the bible. The reversal is just so straightforeward. The sarcasm is so obvious. I don’t think that there is much hope in the idea that Mary said what she did to the wedding staff in the mere hopes that Jesus might change his mind, either. If she did this, it’d be a manipulative set up. If Jesus did nothing, then everybody would have been let down by him, after Mary’s implication that Jesus could do something if he wanted.
This all brings us back to the question: what’s going on?